It's been awfully long since I wrote on my blog...and I've been missing it a lot. 2007 just whizzed by which normally means a lot of fun time. Being married is a big change in life - one has to share one's life with a spouse. No matter how much love there is in between the two, it is an upward climb easing itself as you take it on steadily.
In our culture, marriages are not just between individuals - it involves the association and mingling of the families the individuals come from. So it's a grander and slightly complicated affair. And trust me, no matter who you are, what you do for a living and how good your bank balance looks, you really can't be prepared for this (may be the bank balance can get you off the hook a few times by bribing troublesome relatives/in-laws). It is an interesting experience where love and patience have to be harvested to reap the crop of affection and respect as time goes by (although I'm still an amateur).
Personally, if you are good at math you can solve the puzzle of marriage easily. I say this because at any time, it is always a question of priorities. If this is comprehended, there cannot be many hurdles in this relationship. The other key thing is being truthful to yourself and your spouse.
Family is a great thing and it is easy to understand why, when you have your own. It is a huge responsibility nonetheless but I honestly think it is worth the time and effort! What is life without someone to love and a whole group of people to have a good time?
Stay tuned...
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- I see nature in various forms and each time it looks different from the multitude of variations I have seen before. It is a whole new view, an interesting panorama of life around us.
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April 01, 2008
December 24, 2006
2006 - It's been a great year !
I'm back to blogging after a break...life has treated me very well these past few months...but I missed writing too much that I'm sitting up at 3:05 AM on a Sunday morning writing this piece !
The year started off with me spending time back home among family fantastically. A lot many improvements in my career and a special touch to my personal life...guess what??? Yes, I'm getting hitched. Call me fantasizing, but I've always believed in "A special person is out there for me". It's a feeling of a dream come true !
With an approaching wedding and a few deadlines in a new job, you can't imagine how life can be. There is a long list of things-to-be-done-and-best-done-with-less-folks-around. It's been fun performing at work and going shopping for a wedding in the evenings/weekends. To top it all, I have had a few people ask me if I'm getting cold feet. Not that it's a silly inquiry, but where is the question of uncertainty when you are sure of what you are doing. The very thought of a reply brings up my fiancee's face and I just smile to myself. We are a strange combination ~ quite the opposites really...excluding the principle of magnetism, this is where I understood what they mean by opposites attract.
So much said, I'm eagerly looking forward to the New Year's and my upcoming home going...not to forget the very special occasion of our wedding !
Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Fabulous New Year !!!
The year started off with me spending time back home among family fantastically. A lot many improvements in my career and a special touch to my personal life...guess what??? Yes, I'm getting hitched. Call me fantasizing, but I've always believed in "A special person is out there for me". It's a feeling of a dream come true !
With an approaching wedding and a few deadlines in a new job, you can't imagine how life can be. There is a long list of things-to-be-done-and-best-done-with-less-folks-around. It's been fun performing at work and going shopping for a wedding in the evenings/weekends. To top it all, I have had a few people ask me if I'm getting cold feet. Not that it's a silly inquiry, but where is the question of uncertainty when you are sure of what you are doing. The very thought of a reply brings up my fiancee's face and I just smile to myself. We are a strange combination ~ quite the opposites really...excluding the principle of magnetism, this is where I understood what they mean by opposites attract.
So much said, I'm eagerly looking forward to the New Year's and my upcoming home going...not to forget the very special occasion of our wedding !
Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Fabulous New Year !!!
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